Can poly dating be a thing when you’re married? Sure it can. Marriage is defined differently today than what it used to be. Many married couples have sex with people outside their marriage, and neither person sees it as cheating. Sometimes those couples are bisexual and desire the loving, sensual touch of someone of the same sex. People who have such desires have an almost impossible time not acting them out. Sometimes dating multiple people of different genders is how they work it out. None of this should be problematic unless the person isn’t honest about what they’re doing.
There are so many married couples dating right now that it’s not as surprising as it once was. If a married couple was dating in the past, it was a sign that soon they were going to get a divorce. Today, it’s far more complicated than that. A person in a marriage may be dating due to various factors. Their partner may be sick and not able to live up to their sexual expectations. A husband or wife in this situation may prefer that their spouse seek out another person instead of getting a divorce.
Sex is seen as a form of entertainment these days. The pleasure and satisfaction from sex isn’t seen as taboo as it once was. Couples today are okay with the idea of their partner having sex with someone else. Sometimes couples are even okay with their partner dating multiple people at the same time. No two marriages are the same, and it’s up to the couple to decide what their sex lives are going to be like. The mold was broken a long time ago when it comes to what people expect a marriage to be like. Everyone today goes into the relationship, knowing that they make the rules and no one else.
Be frank, honest, and to the point when talking about these sorts of relationships with your spouse. Never hide anything when it comes to sex with your spouse. It’s best to get out of the relationship with your dignity if you feel that lying is the only way out. We all have to be open-minded when it comes to an understanding of what our partner desires when it comes to sex. People change as they age, and sometimes a man or a woman wants to experience something before it’s too late. It’s not unheard of for a husband or wife to want to have a threesome early on in their marriage to see what it’s like. It might not be something they want ever to do again, but the desire to try it once may be overwhelming.
A fulfilling sexual lifestyle is what everyone should seek out. How a married couple defines it is up to them. For some, a satisfying sex life is to be with each other and no one else. While for others, they want to have sex with as many partners as possible. Neither of these approaches is wrong as long as everyone is fully aware of what the other is doing. Secrets destroy lives, and sometimes it’s not possible for them to not be told.